What is a groom's cake?

Origin is Victorian-era England. Most popular in the southern US. Traditionally chosen by the groom, served alongside the wedding cake to the groomsmen.

May I bring a guest to a wedding?

Only if given the option. A guest option will be indicated on your RSVP card or electronic invitation.

Should I bring a gift to the wedding?

Traditionally gifts are sent directly to the home of the bride or groom, not brought to the wedding.

As a guest, what should I wear to a wedding?

Look to the invitation for a clue — black tie, beach casual, etc. If silent, contact the couple. Traditional western wedding guests do not wear white.

Are the bride and groom obligated to send thank you notes?

Yes. Everyone who attended the wedding or gave a gift should receive a thank you note.

May I bring my children to a wedding?

Unless indicated on the invitation, you may not. Consider the location and time before asking.

Do the bride and groom have to give the wedding party a gift?

Yes. All members of the wedding party should receive an appreciation gift from the couple.

Are the days of the three-martini lunch really over?

Yes. Limit alcohol consumption and avoid reimbursing for alcoholic beverages. Steer away from drinking midday at business events.

Tips for cell phone use at a work lunch?

Don't answer or text unless the call is urgent. Keep conversations private. Be conscious of ring tone. Put phone on vibrate.

What foods should I avoid at a business lunch or dinner?

Avoid messy food: lobster in shell, spaghetti, mussels, ribs, chicken wings. Avoid food that sticks in teeth like spinach.

Who picks up the check at a business lunch?

Vendor/sales person first, then boss or most senior person, then you if dining with someone helping you (resume review, networking).

Top tips for planning a successful business dinner?

Choose restaurant for quiet noise level. Allow casual banter first. Have an objective and agenda. Steer away from alcohol.

What if I have dietary or religious restrictions?

Pre-plan. Call the restaurant ahead and ask about menu or ingredients. Don't wait until you're at the table.

Suggestions for small talk at a dinner meeting?

Read a mainstream newspaper for a week before. Avoid hot-button topics like religion and politics. Research fellow diners.

What should I wear for a business dinner right after work?

Wear what you normally wear to work. Consider bringing a clean business shirt and freshening up before leaving.

How many drinks at an office party?

If you want a drink, only have one. Better still don't drink. Getting drunk at an office party can damage your professional reputation.

Can I take a doggy bag at a business dinner?

Never take a doggy bag after a business lunch or dinner — it is gauche.

September 2027

Shances International Excursion Trip:
Netherlands and the South of France

Canals, Culture, and Natural Beauty

Enjoy The Netherlands with its picturesque canals that run past historical houses, story tale-like forests, and multicolored tulips. Learn about the steep, serious history of The Hague, visit museums dedicated to artist van Gogh and the life of Anne Frank, see lush landscapes dotted with windmills, and enjoy beers that wet your whistle and crispy French fries known as “patat” or “frites.” This country should not be missed.

Trip Highlights: An exclusive private tour of the Royal Palace in Amsterdam given by the former Policy Assistant to the Grand Master and Master of Ceremonies of HM Queen Beatrix of The Netherlands and a personal friend of Shances. The tour will include very specific insights unknown to the general public. Afterward delight in lunch, drinks, and a stroll along the Amsterdam Canals.

Sand, Sun, and Relaxation

Visit one of Shances' all-time favorite excursion cities, Nice. It boasts free access to pristine beaches that curve along an azure colored sea, a promenade fit for a Hollywood movie, a laid back atmosphere, fresh delicious meals, and convenience to all of the French Riviera. It is no wonder that this jewel of a town became a haven for writers, artists, celebrities, and those who desire a destination that is as relaxing, warm and as inviting as the southern sun.

Trip Highlights: Excursion options include Grasse, the picturesque town known globally as the world capital of perfume, the Riviera city of Cannes, Monaco, and/or the town of Provence known for its lavender fields and rose wine.

Due to the exclusivity of this trip, the attendee number will be capped at fifteen (15). A $500 non-refundable trip inclusion fee is needed to reserve your space. As with all Shances cultural immersion travel experiences, your trip will be well curated in order to maximize your enjoyment and provide you with breathtaking memories. This is a ten (10) day trip including three (3) full days in The Netherlands and four (4) full days in the South of France. For more information including trip cost, please contact 212-736-3737 or info@shances.com.

Shances International Excursion Trip: Netherlands and the South of France

Shances International Excursion Trip:
Netherlands and the South of France